Do you ask another parent about a gathering or party to verify safe situations and supervised homes?

Make the call. Many parents welcome the call; it shows that they have an ally as an engaged and caring parent. It also shows your teen that you care. This could be the first time the parent knew about the gathering.

Remember that this applies to after school too. Many teenagers get into trouble with drugs and alcohol between 3 pm and 6 pm.

• Ask your child the names of all the friends who will be at the home. A parent you already know may be able to assist you in approaching the parent.
• Let your child know that you will be calling the parent who is hosting.
• Stress that your concern is strictly about the kids.
• Offer to bring snacks.
• If they admit that the kids will be unsupervised, offer to host the gathering at your own home.
• Avoid judgmental terms and tones.
• Offer to help supervise.
• Ask the parent’s opinion on alcohol and underage drinking.